Oh No! Houston, we have a head cold.

Alas gentle readers, its been a bit of a trial this past week.  Luckily, I have escaped fairly unscathed, but this can not be said for our newest addition Jacob or my lovely wife.  You see ... we have been introduced to the bane of all small children and new parents alike.  Yes ... I know its hard to hear these words without cringing... Jacob <gasp> got sick.  Now ... hold on... slowly take your hand off the panic button and step back for a second... I'll explain.

   We tried really hard to keep Jacob from getting ill.  We bundled him up whenever taking him out into the fresh air. I personally cleaned the humidifier and changed the water as directed (weekly and daily). I was vigilant about cleaning the house daily and removing as much pet dander, dust, and general bad stuff as possible.  We bathed him, played with him, baby massaged him, fed him, and avoided areas of high risk public traffic.  Still, neither EJ or I thought that the little man should live in a bubble.  A kids gotta get socialized and besides we didn't want to get cabin fever ourselves.  So whether he caught a virus from his cousins Jack and Josie, from our "kids" at Cast/church, whilst we were out on a walk, or even at our favorite breakfast nook, our little man has developed a nasty head cold.

He was bundled up and it was warm ....

Cousins do love to play don't they?

Jack does like everyone to share :)  Course adults were watching closely don't worry.

Safe,  but what about all the hair?? Suspicious :)

It started with congestion and an occasional cough and has progressed to bronchitis and bronchiolitis especially after being fed a lot...with somewhat comical results :)

Jake's say "What!?"

Its hard not to feel for the little man.  He has to be hungry after losing so much of his lunch, and he doesn't even know how to blow his nose yet.  In fact, we have to do the job for him with a suction bulb and saline.  Let me tell you something, I thought bath time and tummy time were rough.  PIECE OF CAKE compared to suction time.  He HATES nose suction time .... sigh.

Of course, since we are such chill and grounded first time parents we are taking this all in stride.  Elsa certainly has not stayed up for several nights straight just to make sure he keeps breathing, I definitely haven't camped out in the nursery to do the same.  Besides if I did, I absolutely wouldn't be checking his nose, mouth and chest every 30-60 minutes in the process.  Nope ... what do you think we are ... crazy!?! Come on, you all know us better than that.

Still, with the limited therapeutic options that we have available for such a lil' tenderfoot (namely shower nebulization, bulb suction, saline drops, smaller more frequent feedings, elevated sleeping arrangements and a trusty thermometer) we began to worry when he seemed to be getting worse (as would normally happen with a cold) after a few days.  Could this be the dreaded pertussis? Did Jake aspirate or get bronchopneumonia?, Would I ever get to sleep in the same bed as my wife again? (errr how did that get into the worry list?)   It eventually got to a point where EJ took charge and trekked him over to his pediatrician.  His normal doc was off that day (a Saturday ... must be nice :) ), but the covering doctor was actually a very good client of Elsa's (EJ cares for her cats).  This doc loves her cats a lot.... surely she needed no extra incentive to be an awesome doctor (which she is), but it is nice to have in the back pocket just in case.  Anywho... doc said he is doing well, lungs sound ok and to continue TLC at home and he will be just fine.  Nice to hear even if we knew it already.  Whoever said knowledge is power must know that a little too much knowledge can be more trouble than it is worth :-P

In any case, Jake seems to have turned the corner this morning and is on the rebound.  In the meantime, with the lack of sleep and such close contact with the baby, EJ has caught the cold.  As for me, well I don't have time to get sick.  I have a lot of work to do at the hospital and a trip up to Massachusetts for Easter to plan.  Maybe I'll schedule a sick day in a month or two.  That is how it works right?

Next blog should have holiday undertones, but I leave you with this good note.  Thanks to my AWESOME inlaws EJ and I were able to sneak away for a double date Seder dinner at Elsa's hometown church .. and it was delicious.

mmm lamb dinner :)

Love ya all
Zach and the rest of the misfits

Its official 2 is now 3!

Well gang, guess what?  The house has a brand new 1 month old member.  Initially, I was going to try to rush out a post on the actual day of his birth ... but as you can imagine, I was a little busy with other matters.  

He's here!

A rose in Jake's honor at our church

So Jacob (my son) was born a little over a month ago on his due date!  Now some of you may be saying to yourself, "Self, why did he put an exclamation point there."  I would respond to this in two ways.  First, you silly reader, DUH, this is our first <human> son, OF COURSE he deserves an exclamation point.  Secondly, now this is super cool as well.  Apparently, less than 5% of babies are born on their official due date.  Already, my son is showing his exemplary nature.  Jacob Tristan weighed in at a little over 7 lbs.  According to the Chinese calendar, Jacob has been born in the year of the water dragon.  This is apparently a really lucky thing ... hopefully he won't need to cash it in on that to often.   The first night was both exciting and terrifying, but we made it through.  It was looking dicey but thanks to a great pacifier (THANKS AUNT DOTTY!), and the knowledge that we could trade nap times the next day ... we were soon through.  Luckily, the nights have gone pretty well since then.

I have to say the little guy has been quite the superstar.  He sleeps well at night, want to interact with us during the day, and is growing like a weed.  His coos are enough to melt your heart, and when he stretches and puckers his lips you will do anything at all for him.
 Some of the pets love the little guy.  Nemo especially likes to curl up next to the him while he is sleeping on our chest or nursing with EJ.  Frisby is still trying to figure out how to get the food he is eating (when he is nursing of course).  The others, well they don't really care as long as they get fed and the house is clean.  So the household has had no problems with the transition which takes a huge weight off of our minds.

At this point, we have a pretty good routine.... of course I have no illusions that this will last forever.  We will need to change frequently as we are forced to adapt to Elsa's return to work and Jake's growth .... but its clearly worth it.  The little man likes to sleep at night, will sometimes nap during the day, but prefers to be played with, cooed to, or held a lot when he is active.  He really likes it when we take him for a walk <in his nifty Bob stroller -- the Cadillac of baby transport devices> to the beach.  Studies show that sun exposure (don't worry we protect him from directed sun rays) in the afternoon assists in better sleeping at night.  This seems to be working quite well so far.  EJ is likely going to teach him Spanish as well as English and we have started reading to him.  He can't see very well yet and when he grabs toys its kinda accidental, but I've already started to dream about playing ball someday, or going on hikes or ski trips.  I swear the lil' man gets more fun everyday!

Ready for his big day out.

We can't wait until he meets everyone.  We have already had a bunch of visitors, but if any of you readers want to stop by for a visit consider this an open invite.  Just call first as I haven't notified the wife about this :-)

Jake's first play date and sleepover... how advanced :)

I will try to write more often... but bear with me if there are delays.  Elsa won't always let me get away with blogging while she does all the work after all.


Love Zach, Elsa, Frisby, Kitty, Nemo, Jamie, Cosmo, Paulie, Dirt Dawg, and of course the superstar himself JACOB!!!

Hey Kid it could be worse.... you could be a Cubs fan now!

Busy October/November

Hi all,
   It has been a long time since last I posted because I have been a little busy (and addicted to a new app game called Jelly Defense).  Still, as I looked at the amount of stuff that needed to be posted, I thought I would sit down and blog away.

Some congrats flowers, one from me, one from a client.  Guess which is which.

   We have had an early blizzard, a crazy birthday weekend, a whirlwind visit to my parents in Massachusetts and don't forget some Thanksgiving fun.  Here are some selected pictures for you all.  Enjoy!

This was taken very shortly before Josie entered our life.  The sisters decided to pose for the obligatory belly pose.  Elsa and her sister Laura are pictured here the week before Halloween.  (Josie born 10/27/11).

Part of the baby naming contest at work.

Josie our new niece with her mom looking cute!

No this is not Canada or February... this was October in Jersey

Can you believe all of this snow before November even started? Neither can these deer.

Us with our brand new niece

Elsa napping with her new niece on Halloween weekend.

Elsa, Ken, and Katherine hanging out before the Tufts Vet School reunion dinner.

Old Professors in lederhosen  how quaint!

EJ getting ready for the holidays!

Some of the member of my vet school class at the reunion.  Yup the male to female ratio is pretty accurate :)

Pets and kids

So the house of misfit pets is bound to grow very soon. While we are certainly stressed for many reasons (money, time, sleep, health), there has been one concern lingering in the back of our minds that supersedes all of these. How will the pets react? Dirt dog and Kitty should not be a problem as they will be kept away from the baby under most circumstances. Likewise Jamie and Cosmo will likely just avoid him or her. Our main concerns are regarding Paulie and Frisby. We fear that Paulie will try to cuddle with the baby and wake him or her ( and thus us). Problem is we will have to be vigilant to keep him from being over affectionate all the time and accidentally hurting (or waking) the baby.  Don't forget about that whole sucking the breath out thing! (just kidding) As long as we can set some boundaries all should be well though it will take constant vigilance with this little Casanova. As for Frisby, we are afraid how the crotchety old lady would respond. However, last night as she was cuddling with EJ, Paulie started to lick her head. Though clearly upset she did no more then groan in protest.... Good sign ... I think she'll be just fine.  Plus once the free food comes ... they may become best buddies!

We aren't scaredy cats ... we are just careful

Frisby puts up with a lot ... a baby should not be too much more taxing for her!

Cosmo should be pretty chill about the experience .. but can Paulie keep his hands to himself?

Just hope the little one is not allergic.

Oye

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The ark has landed in Sparta!

What do you do when you live within walking distance of the beach and a class 1-2 hurricane is about to hit you directly? My friends if you are the H.o.M.P., you pack up and evacuate. So after a full day of work on Friday, I prepared the house for the hurricane. After moving in the grills and lawn furniture, securing the wood pile, and taping our windows, I was pretty tired. Meanwhile, Ej was packing up the perishables, filling the bathtub with water and checking the sump pump and fridge. We also took a ton of insurance pictures just in case. With the house battened down as best as possible, we packed up the 7 fuzzies (fish alas will have to fend for themselves), and hightailed it to higher ground ahead of the storm.
So the Weiner clan, which now numbers 10, is relatively safe and sound on top of a mountain. The wind and rain have been nasty with many trees and poles down around here and even a little flooding. As for back home, we are not sure. All of our friends who we talked to are okay thank God. Even with the storm gone, we remain at risk of flooding. Supposing the storm left our house intact, water damage is still possible. With all the recent rain and being so close to the seawall our former swamp land is trouble waiting to strike. Luckily, we don't have a basement and our crawlspace has a sump pump. Unfortunately, I never got a generator and was not there to bail water if (which is likely) power was lost or a window was damaged. If not for little poppy, I would have driven back today to find out. The fact is though, there is a baby and the gusts are still strong (branches and logs are falling outside at a great rate). We don't know how safe the roads are yet. So we decided to wait one more day and let the road crews do their job. Best case or house is fine, worst case I will be having long conversations with our insurance adjuster. Either way we plan to stay alive and healthy. Still if you read this, live nearby, it is safe to leave your house and you happen to do a driveby, please let us know what's up. Geez why do we live over an old swamp?

Zach

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Hurricane hits Sparta

My sibling in laws house, hope ours is fine.

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Fun without electricity

Like dressing pets as superheroes

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