Sunday, April 29, 2012

Spring has indeed sprung!

Hey gang,
The Pinewood Lane Welcome Committee
  To be completely honest with you all, I have been planning to write this blog since Easter.  Yup since Easter, weeks ago.... well its been a little busy sorry.  The lil' man is still growing like a weed and continues to amaze us with new random acts of abject cuteness.  The flowers are in bloom and the weather keeps changing from unseasonably warm to seasonably mild.  Apparently, either March or April (I forget which but maybe one of my gentle readers can enlighten me) was subject to an extreme weather phenomena due to the number of warm days... err climate change much.. but lets move on.


So the human portion of our little band (while the dogs, cats, and bunny enjoyed a short stay at hotel de Oakhurst) packed our selves up and headed up to see the Weiner clan for Easter (or if you are so inclined Spring equinox, Passover, or mini-family reunion) weekend.  EJ and Jacob were just getting over the previously mentioned microplague, I was in full thralls of the dreaded respiratory monster.  We arrived on Pinewood ave at around 12:30 in the morning (yes 2 am we left after I got home from work ... wanted plenty of family time).  Now typically we are able to sneak in at this time of night like delinquent teenagers, feed the baby and head to bed.  Our goal was to be a very welcome surprise when the sleeping denizens of the house arose in a few hours.  Think again .... for the anxious grandparents and auntie were already well awake and waiting to meet the newest member of their clan.  Good news... well Grandma Weiner got to feed Jacob his midnight bottle snack.  Better news Grandpa Weiner was able to sing him a lovely Yiddish lullaby (I think it was something about the alphabet).  Bad news.... well a very tired Zach after a 12 hour work day and a 6 hour drive ... he didn't get to go straight to bed... he had to wait another hour or so.  Small sacrifice obviously... plus Jacob opened a new surprise sanctum for us.  Yes ... you are hearing correctly, we were allowed to stay in the master bedroom which had its own separate bathroom.  YAY!!!
Lil' man meeting the family
Jacob as a newborn and my dad as a newborn.
 Quite the resemblance.

All dressed up, but where to go?
The weekend was very fun.  EJ and I both got to have a semi-weekend off because everyone and I mean everyone wanted to hold Jacob.  He was (reluctantly by whoever was currently holding him) passed from adoring Great Aunt to doting Great Great Grandma to kvelling Grandparents... to friends, cousins, uncles aunts you get the drift.  We were able to suffer through the Bosox opening series struggles with Detroit, watch the Celts win a game or two and eat tons of delicious food.   We even dressed lil Jake up to see his Grandpa read at Easter service.  It was totally not our fault that we got there late due to slightly incorrect directions (the gentle nudge is aimed at you Grandpa Weiner ;-) ).  In all a wonderful time... the drive back though not so much.  About 3-4 hours in (about midway through Connecticut) the congestion, running nose, itchy throat, and headache did me in.  We got back safe and sound, but I was out of commission for the next day.  Still all and all, we were happy we could make the trip and show Jake Daddy's old stomping grounds.  Hopefully,  next time I am up in the Baystate I will be well enough to show him around to family and friends (that means you high school, college, vet school, and internship buddies).  We did get to show off many of Jake's cute outfits though .... and he is growing enough to be big enough for a whole new crop.  All I am saying is get your popcorn ready and check Facebook often :)
Yankees ...suck.. just remember that little one.

Enjoying nature at Ag. Field Day Fair
Easter isn't the only thing that we have been able to enjoy recently.  The warm weather has convinced me to set up the bird feeders again.  Already this year we have been able to show Jake (and the kitties who love the feathered friends),  cardinals (male and female), house finches, goldfinches, sparrows, blue jays, doves, and some acrobatic squirrels.  In fact the furry lil' dudes were making such a mess that I had to construct some pretty cool baffles.  In Elsa's daily walks in our "wild" backyard with Jake, she even saw a raccoon in the hollow of one of our trees.  I know, I know, my first concern was that it might be sick too.... but it stayed far away from her and we haven't seen it since.  So hopefully no Rabies or Distemper in our backyard.  We also have been hiking in the local parks and Jacob went to his first agricultural fair!  On the lighter side he did step foot in his first bar (luckily there is no smoking inside in Jersey and it was early so no really loud music).  Jacob wanted to show support to his Aunt and Uncle during there Ovarian Cancer awareness event ... which he did quite well until nap time.  Elsa especially is trying to cram as much fun time in with our little miracle before her leave ends later in May.  We have many more fun days ahead for sure... but after Memorial day we will start a new adventure.  This my friends is ... daycare!  Trust me, I'm sure many fun stories will come from that phase of our lives.
No this is not a professional wildlife photo/ Elsa
took this with our videocamera
(has really good zoom capabilities in our backyard.

As for our furry family mates, pretty much status quot.  They seems to either not care about Jake or like him.  The dogs don't know how much trouble he will be yet (when moving, chasing and pulling) or how much bounty they can steal when he starts eating.  Right now he is just another small (loud) alpha.  As for the cats... well besides the fact that Nemo will occasionally steal a pacifier to tick off EJ, they don't give Jacob a second glance.  All of them are as healthy and happy as ever.

I am hoping to add many new blog entries about our Spring and Summer adventures very soon.  Our good friends the Danowitzes gave us a baby backpack ... so a hiking we will be!

Until then miss you all and can't wait to see you again.

 Zach and the House of Misfit Pets
Enjoying Passion Puddle with the family
Jake can't wait to see you all soon!






Spring means we don't always have to watch the "lightshow"








Monday, April 2, 2012

Oh No! Houston, we have a head cold.

Alas gentle readers, its been a bit of a trial this past week.  Luckily, I have escaped fairly unscathed, but this can not be said for our newest addition Jacob or my lovely wife.  You see ... we have been introduced to the bane of all small children and new parents alike.  Yes ... I know its hard to hear these words without cringing... Jacob <gasp> got sick.  Now ... hold on... slowly take your hand off the panic button and step back for a second... I'll explain.

   We tried really hard to keep Jacob from getting ill.  We bundled him up whenever taking him out into the fresh air. I personally cleaned the humidifier and changed the water as directed (weekly and daily). I was vigilant about cleaning the house daily and removing as much pet dander, dust, and general bad stuff as possible.  We bathed him, played with him, baby massaged him, fed him, and avoided areas of high risk public traffic.  Still, neither EJ or I thought that the little man should live in a bubble.  A kids gotta get socialized and besides we didn't want to get cabin fever ourselves.  So whether he caught a virus from his cousins Jack and Josie, from our "kids" at Cast/church, whilst we were out on a walk, or even at our favorite breakfast nook, our little man has developed a nasty head cold.
He was bundled up and it was warm ....
Cousins do love to play don't they?
Jack does like everyone to share :)  Course adults were watching closely don't worry.

Safe,  but what about all the hair?? Suspicious :)




It started with congestion and an occasional cough and has progressed to bronchitis and bronchiolitis especially after being fed a lot...with somewhat comical results :)
Jake's say "What!?"



Its hard not to feel for the little man.  He has to be hungry after losing so much of his lunch, and he doesn't even know how to blow his nose yet.  In fact, we have to do the job for him with a suction bulb and saline.  Let me tell you something, I thought bath time and tummy time were rough.  PIECE OF CAKE compared to suction time.  He HATES nose suction time .... sigh.

Of course, since we are such chill and grounded first time parents we are taking this all in stride.  Elsa certainly has not stayed up for several nights straight just to make sure he keeps breathing, I definitely haven't camped out in the nursery to do the same.  Besides if I did, I absolutely wouldn't be checking his nose, mouth and chest every 30-60 minutes in the process.  Nope ... what do you think we are ... crazy!?! Come on, you all know us better than that.

Still, with the limited therapeutic options that we have available for such a lil' tenderfoot (namely shower nebulization, bulb suction, saline drops, smaller more frequent feedings, elevated sleeping arrangements and a trusty thermometer) we began to worry when he seemed to be getting worse (as would normally happen with a cold) after a few days.  Could this be the dreaded pertussis? Did Jake aspirate or get bronchopneumonia?, Would I ever get to sleep in the same bed as my wife again? (errr how did that get into the worry list?)   It eventually got to a point where EJ took charge and trekked him over to his pediatrician.  His normal doc was off that day (a Saturday ... must be nice :) ), but the covering doctor was actually a very good client of Elsa's (EJ cares for her cats).  This doc loves her cats a lot.... surely she needed no extra incentive to be an awesome doctor (which she is), but it is nice to have in the back pocket just in case.  Anywho... doc said he is doing well, lungs sound ok and to continue TLC at home and he will be just fine.  Nice to hear even if we knew it already.  Whoever said knowledge is power must know that a little too much knowledge can be more trouble than it is worth :-P

In any case, Jake seems to have turned the corner this morning and is on the rebound.  In the meantime, with the lack of sleep and such close contact with the baby, EJ has caught the cold.  As for me, well I don't have time to get sick.  I have a lot of work to do at the hospital and a trip up to Massachusetts for Easter to plan.  Maybe I'll schedule a sick day in a month or two.  That is how it works right?

Next blog should have holiday undertones, but I leave you with this good note.  Thanks to my AWESOME inlaws EJ and I were able to sneak away for a double date Seder dinner at Elsa's hometown church .. and it was delicious.

mmm lamb dinner :)


Love ya all
Zach and the rest of the misfits